Wednesday, October 15, 2008

A Quiet Time With God--The Beginning


Before we begin, I just want to make this perfectly clear. I am far from an expert on prayer. I have been wanting to enhance my prayer life, my time with God. So, I did some reading on this subject and just wanted to share with you what I have learned.

Also, if you haven't read the previous post, you might want to go back and look it over before beginning today.

Now, are we all ready to begin? Do you have your Bible, a small notebook, a pen or pencil and yourself? Okay--here we go!!




We are all on a spiritual journey, and we are all on different places in our walk with our Lord. Some of us are baby Christians, some are toddlers taking their first wobbly steps, some are in their teens, and some are mature adults.

But, whatever level we are one in our own personal life, I think that each of use realize and understand that the most intimate communion with God comes through prayer.

The apostle Paul knew this when he wrote:

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition,
with Thanksgiving,
present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding,
will guard your hearts and minds
in Christ Jesus."

Phillippians 4:6-7

So, how do we accomplish this? How do we achieve this peace? How do we learn to talk with God, a quiet time with God every day--a time that we look forward to and don't try to squeeze into our busy schedules. This is what we are going to discover together over the next several days.

In my readings, I have discovered the fact that if we want the best information about any subject, we need to go to an expert in that particular field. If we want to become good at something--a sport, playing the piano. and yes, praying, we need to practice.

In order to learn to pray effectively, consistently, have that quiet time with God every day in our lives, we need to practice and discipline ourselves. Most importantly, we need to study the expert in this field.

We need to look at the person of Jesus Christ. No one has ever prayed more fervently, had more intimate conversations with His Father, or understood the power of prayer more than Jesus. He is the expert of prayer. We are going to examine how Jesus prayed and learn how to apply this to our own lives.

God is willing, ready and able. He is waiting for us to come to into His presence expectantly every day--with an attitude of worship, faith in Him, trust in Him, hope in Him, love for Him--just waiting for us to speak intimately with Him.

No concern of ours is too small or too big for God to handle. We are HIS children, and He wants to hear from us. Think of your own children--are you happy when you pick up the phone and hear their voice? Does it make you feel joyful when you are able to give your children a gift--something they have been longing to have?

Now, apply your own feelings about your children to God's feelings about His children. How much greater joy will God receive when we speak to God, come to Him with our praise, our thanks, our needs and concerns--no matter how great or small.

Paul writes in Romans 8:16-17:

"The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit
that we are God's children.
Now if we are children, then we are heirs--
heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ,
if indeed we share in His sufferings in order that
we may share in His glory."

This is an absolute promise from God. He will cover us with His blessings because we are His children, sons and daughters of the King, and heirs to His Kingdom!

Now, it's time to journal for today:

  • Reread the above Scriptures and describe how these verses speak to you personally about each and every need in your life.
Just reading these verses from Phillippians gives me peace. Knowing that I can take my
anxieties, my cares and concerns, my needs (no matter how great or small) to God,
present them to Him, knowing He is in control (no, not me!) relieves me and brings me
tranquility and peace. Sometimes, I will go over and over things in my own mind,
discussing whatever the problem or need is with others, and in my head I already am
telling myself, "I know, I know what the answer is." I have presented this to God already
and He has answered me. It's a matter of moving my head knowledge to my heart.

  • Read Psalm 86:5-7. If you don't have a Bible, I have these verses here for you. Meditate on these verses and express in your journal about this makes you feel, knowing that God will answer you.

I feel a great sense of relief!! Knowing that God hears me, will answer me (maybe not in
the way I expected), and knowing beyond a doubt that His will is what is perfect and best
for me. I know that whatever is on my mind, I can bring to Him (He knows
already, anway!) in prayer, and He will embrace me, cry with me, laugh with me, and see
me through. He has never let me go--even when I was far from Him. I am His child and
He loves me always.
  • Write a prayer of thanks to God for what you are learning from His Word.
My Father---I thank you for your Word, where I can go in any circumstance in my life,
and learn what You have spoken. There is much in your Word that I do not truly
understand. Please open my heart and mind to your teachings, so that I may follow
You more closely.
  • Write your prayers to God, asking Him questions, telling Him your needs, your fears, any concerns you may have.
Abba--I love you. You are mighty and powerful and hold the entire world in Your hands.
I confess to you my sins, some of which I have committed knowingly, and some unknow-
ingly. Please forgive me and help me to learn to have faith and trust in You completely.
Help me to surrender my total life to You, not holding back any part, not even the
smallest part. I want to be totally Yours in all ways.

Help me to find the quiet time to spend with You, not squeezing You in at the end of my
busy day when I am too tired to listen to what You have to say to me.

I pray for my children who do not know You. I fear for them, Lord. Please let them see
You shining in my life, see the changes You have made in me, and bring them to You.

Please help me to bring my anxieties, concerns and fears to You before they overwhelm
me, not after!! Help me to seek You more and more each moment of my life.
  • Write a list of what you have talked with God about today.
Trust
Confidence
Surrender
My children
God's Word
Fear, anxieties
Feeling overwhelmed

I'll be back tomorrow to share my journalings with you. If you are participating in this with me, please let me know. Your journals are your own private communion with God, but if you have anything you would like to share, please do so by either linking to your own blog or leaving a comment.

Then, on Friday, we'll move on to your own personal quiet place with God and how He will be waiting for you to come and meet Him there.

Have a blessed day!

Beth


4 comments:

Peggy said...

Blessings Beth...this is so precious!

Your teaching and sweet spirit is a beautiful reflection of His Spirit
living in you! ""The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit
that we are God's children." I'm so glad to have this quiet time with God & you!

I will join as often as I can.

I probably will not be posting my reflections but who knows, where the spirit will lead. I'll let you know if I do. I may post on Friday and put your button for more people to join in. So is the plan to do this on Mon.,Weds., Fri.? ....I'll go back & check but I do not recall you saying that except for see ya on Weds. and now Fri.

I will lay down my anxious heart & come to the cross with my thanks giving to honor & worship Our Lord!
All that is within me, I give Him my praise. I live for Him alone. Every breath I take, every moment
wants to be filled by Him. I will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus with the peace of God! May whatever I do today bring glory to the Lord, for He suffered & died on the cross to give us eternal life.
How can I stop thanking Him!!!

Barbara said...

I am planning to join along with you.... will be away on holiday until the 31st of October although.

Blessings

Peggy said...

WOW! BETH...LOVE ALL YOU ADDED!
Having read today's (Fri.) and then come to see what you are sharing, leaves me in awe!!! You've come a long way!!! This is a beautiful prayer from your heart!!!
"Abba--I love you. You are mighty and powerful and hold the entire world in Your hands.
I confess to you my sins, some of which I have committed knowingly, and some unknow-ingly. Please forgive me and help me to learn to have faith and trust in You completely.
Help me to surrender my total life to You, not holding back any part, not even the smallest part. I want to be totally Yours in all ways.

Help me to find the quiet time to spend with You, not squeezing You in at the end of my busy day when I am too tired to listen to what You have to say to me.

I pray for my children who do not know You. I fear for them, Lord. Please let them see You shining in my life, see the changes You have made in me, and bring them to You.

Please help me to bring my anxieties, concerns and fears to You before they overwhelm
me, not after!! Help me to seek You more and more each moment of my life."

Almost every word I could utter as well. You have taken these verses And internalized them & prayed them back. You almost followed exactly the basis of a prayer formula...but you know...when I pray, I hardly follow that exactly...when I pray back God's words...I would just take what's written & pray it as is but you have applied the verse to your own...that's how I prayed on the 16th in your comment...take the Word & pray it back. His Word never returns void. I think HE likes your style & prayer...I do! The prayer formula I learned in the 80s was:
ACTS...A for Adoration, C for Confession, T for thanksgiving & S for Supplication...which is where you list all your prayer requests.
Truthfully, many prayers seem like just that...others have called that a "give me" prayer. But I find other prayers just focused on A...
ADORING, PRAISING, WORSHIPPING, THANKING!!! Then others when I've really messed up are BIG "C"...that comes out of my Catholic upbringing, the heavy guilt of the confessional...supposed repentance and acts of contrition...PENANCE!
From this I developed a deep sense
of a very critical spirit & self condemnation. I held myself in a prison, I built up a great deal of
guilt (false guilt)and very unforgiving of myself for any sin,
in (catholic terms) grave(mortal) or (venial)little ones and it took me a long time to realize sin was sin. God hates the sin not the sinner. And if God can forgive me as far as the east is from the west, why can't I? I was even told that is PRIDE because I think I'm above GOD, to not forgive myself.
WOW...the lessons I've learned and yet to learn...for I'm learning daily. My notes are in my One Notebook so it's hard going back & forth. My list is almost like YOURS
except different order!!! I added PEACE instead of surrender(but I probably need that the most) & I had THANKFULNESS since I saw that
in Phillippian's verse. From Romans
I talked to God about the SUFFERINGS, INJUSTICES, Thankfulness for inheritance, being an heir...HIS SPIRIT & HIS GLORY!

My children are not my own, but I constantly have to pray for them.
Their biological mom probably never said a prayer for them, so I need to pray for her...or I did many times while I was raising them. My kids both accepted the Lord but neither that I know of are in church or walking with Him!They need my constant prayer but there are many others that need prayer as well!!! I do grow weary in praying for things I've prayed for a long time & see little evidence so from Psalm 86 I too find great relief & HOPE & TRUST that is all I have to cling to since I have no evidence that anything for them(or my husband) is changing. I do believe that I am changing and that's all God wants me to take care of...ME!

Joyfulsister said...

Hi Sis..
Quiet times with the Lord in prayer are times when one can just be fully soaked in his presence as the holy spirit speaks not just to the heart but goes deeper into the soul. I love reading these posts on quiet and prayer. I never realized how close to the Lord I would become until I made this effort.I love the thought of just talking to him one on one as a friend and knowing even if I can't see him he sees me and his presence is all around me. Intimate times with him reflects how I go about day..

Hugz Lorie